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Stop Judging

Sunday Thought

Most of us don’t take a second thought before passing judgement on someone about anything, whether or not we are an expert in that particular arena.

Be it judging a celebrity’s attitude or passing comment on a fellow worker’s appraisal or commenting on a stranger’s attire; we seldom fail to prove ourselves as critic.

There is huge difference between having a healthy discussion with a fellow human and criticising someone we barely know about.

Pretty cheap of us don’t you think!

Let’s stop judging anyone for anything at all. Let’s just start accepting people for who they are without keeping any preconceived notion.

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CFL and Tea

A lazy Sunday afternoon

I was sipping tea while sitting peacefully under the fan with a glowing CFL for assistance imagining a conversation for an upcoming story.

I could see the moving reflection of CFL in the tea cup. The more I tried concentrating on the CFL, blurry became the tea and light was all I could see floating in the cup.

I shrugged off my vision and concentrated on the disco-dancing tea. Result was as you can expect. After few seconds I saw only the moving tea and the CFL reflection was too blurry to be noticed.

This is one of the fascinating facts about human mind.

Let’s correlate this teeny tiny observation with real life. Assume the Tea to be a Problem and the CFL to be a Solution (you can mark anyone as positive or negative or whatsoever pleases your imagination).

The more you concentrate on the Problem, all you will see is more of the problem and the Solution will be farther away from your vision.

The sooner you start concentrating on the Solution your problems will be shadowed and pushed into the background and the Solution is all that will prevail.

P.S. – The Tea was absolutely refreshing.

P.P.S. – I have published a post after quite a long time so please be kind to me and share your opinions.

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