There are times or rather a phase in every relationship when couples fight over petty issues. They keep finding flaws and blaming each other. Yelling and bullying dethrones the sensitive love talks. Frustration, tension, irritation, sarcasm and anger shadow’s the true love. Moments come when either one thinks that they may not have made the right decision or that they were not meant to be together or may be their Mrs. Perfect or Mr. Right is someone else and that they should break up and move away from each other. It’s a phase which is surely going to come in every couple’s life who truly love each other. These are in fact the testing times which show the actual strength of the relationship.
Napoleon Hill rightly said – Every adversity, every failure and every heart ache, carries with it the seed of an equivalent or greater benefit.
If they stand by each other during the thunderstorm they will surely realize the depth of their true love; if they part ways, true love was just an illusion.
No matter how far-flung is the conflict but when question comes to break up, the whole world stops (not literally though). One can take the pain of fighting but cannot bear the twinge of losing the one they truly love. The turmoil’s of a day cannot bury the undying love in one’s heart. True Love adds flavors of all kinds of emotions in a person’s life. There will be no feeling left for one to discover.
It’s better to kill the misunderstanding before the misunderstanding slays the relationship.
True Love is not just when you
# keep gazing into each other’s eyes, but also when you keep staring at your lover even though she/he is not noticing.
# hug your lover as soon as you meet, but also when you feel shy in presence of crowd and all you can do is a lame handshake or hold a finger.
# feel jealous because your lover is spending time with a friend, but also when you have blind trust on the faithfulness of the person.
# see your lover smiling, but also when you intentionally act silly to make her/him laugh.
# share soft romantic moments, but also when you do creepy things in order to get gentle rebuking from your better half.
# get angry at your partner because of a mistake committed, but also when you stand right beside her/him even though you know she/he is wrong and later gently convey the flaw.
# keep holding on to a person, but also when you let go.
# express your heart filled desires, but also when you can’t convey your feelings and the grasp of hand or a look into the eyes says it all.
In short, Love is true when Feelings are pure.
Although I’m not an expert to write on this topic but I can share my views which I have understood or felt over the years, in concise words.
True Love is a feeling which cannot be defined or bounded. It’s a pure, soothing and happy feeling which can neither be compared or compromised nor captured or forced. It’s a pure positive energy which always was, is and will be there.
True Love has infinite dimensions. It can never be defined or bounded by any of the scientific laws.
This is all what i have understood till now. Expert opinions are welcome 🙂